With most of our PARENTS we are somewhat burdened and we enjoy complaining about our parents’ faults, barely showing love at all. We have lost hope for growing together and we’ve pretty much given up on seeing these relationships flourish. We don’t necessarily believe this is best, but ultimately we’re either too lazy or apathetic to do anything else. We have enough community and “family” from other friends that the time and energy needed to grow relationally and on mission with our biological family isn’t worth it.
I propose that this is weak, immature, and selfish.