Family
America’s Need For Biblical Literacy
While America’s evangelical Christians are rightly concerned about the secular worldview’s rejection of biblical Christianity, we ought to give some urgent attention to a problem much closer to home–biblical illiteracy in the church. This scandalous problem is our own,…
The Parenting Parable
I regret weighing my son’s worth via a meritocratic scale. I do regret the parenting style I’ve employed—not because I’m too strict or not strict enough (depending on whom you ask) or because sometimes we eat McNuggets for dinner.…
Why Parenting For Legalism Will Fail
The answer to misbehavior and sin is not to hover over our little ones, nervously trying to either catch them in sin or find them acting, for once, in good ways so that we can reinforce every positive or…
Honoring Parents: The Command With A Promise
Dennis Prager examines the biblical command to honor father and mother. There are far-reaching implications for this command. Great good can be obtained through observing it and great devastation comes to families, communities, and countries that fail to observe…
The 10 Commandments Of Parenting
Parenting is one of the greatest joys and responsibilities in this life. Few things produce greater humility or furnish greater rewards. Though I feel inadequate for the task, I love being a Daddy! I continue to receive “on the…
Hey Christian, You’re Not As Likely To Divorce As You Thought You Were
This is a game-changer. Talk about “an old wives’ tale.” You’ve heard it said that 1) 50 percent of all marriages end in divorce; 2) most marriages that do happen to make it are, nonetheless, unhappy, and 3) Christians…
Why Kid’s Church Should Be Uninvented
Nothing like a little satire to point out the flaws of something. This clever little video uses the genius of satire to expose the questionable assumptions behind children’s church and/or Sunday school. Perhaps the cons of age-segregated worship outweigh…
Deny Your Children And Take Up Your Cross!
They say, “Moms, because we are women–nay, not mere women but Wise Western Women–we can change the world, but we need to take up our crosses, and deny our children in order to do it.” Christians, let the World’s women…
How Islam Will Win The [Demographic] War
A declining fertility rate in our culture is evidence that we have, as a culture, devalued children and family. We have done so to a point that our very future is now in question, though we may not realize…
How To Raise Godly Kids Without Going To Church
According to Scripture, it is the parent’s responsibility to raise up their children and teach them about God, but our modern way of doing church relinquishes these things to 45 minutes on Sunday morning and Wednesday night, in a…
You Can’t Childproof The World But You Can Worldproof Your Child
My 8 year old looked at me with her deep brown eyes and said, “The world is scary.” I turned the TV off and wondered how to teach my kids about real love-the kind that makes us pray for…
Pope Francis Called Our Generation Selfish – What If He’s Right?
Pope Francis recently spoke blasphemy to a generation that is obsessed with self-esteem and self-fulfillment. He said that people who choose not to have children are selfish: “A society with a greedy generation, that doesn’t want to surround itself…
Finding Purpose In The Grief Of Miscarriage
I felt close to the suffering Savior who had experienced even more excruciating pain for me, not because he lost a child, but because he gave his all to bring lost children home. He gives purpose to our suffering…
Foster Care Is A Window Into The Gospel
Opening your heart to love any child is risky and requires a loss of self. Opening your heart and home to a foster child may seem especially risky. But in losing ourselves, we gain. We grow in understanding how Jesus loved…
How Hospitality Hits The Heart
“You all have a place to belong,” she said. “You are a part of each other. In your home is everything a person could want or need—food, friendship, spiritual encouragement, rest, comfort, and fun—it’s all here. I want a…
How To Train Godly Children
In honor of Throwback Thursday, we’re remembering this brief video that has some good insights about how to train godly…
What Happens When Kids Tell Bible Stories?
First, there was Drunk History. Then there was Kid History. Now, there is Kid Bible Stories. Play the video, you’ll see what I mean in this child-like retelling of the parable of the unmerciful servant. P.S. What lessons can…
Sunday Sermon: The Seven-Generation Perspective
Richard Twiss shares his thoughts about how taking the long view on things would make such a difference in leadership, family, community, faith, etc. As a native of the Lakota tribe, and also a Christian, he has a unique…
Sunday Sermon: Children Are An Integral Part Of A Worship Gathering
Rob Rienow explains why children should be involved in the gathering of the saints for worship. Believe it or not, this was actually the norm for millennia. It’s only in the last century or so that we had the…
You Don’t Need A Youth Ministry, You Just Need Families
I believe that one of the essential jobs of the local church is to equip Christian parents to take the lead in spiritually training their children. Passing faith to our kids is not the church’s job – it is…
Connect With The Father Heart Of God By Caring For The Fatherless
We see in passages like Deuteronomy 10:17-18 and Psalm 68:4-6 that God associates his care for the fatherless as an integral part of his deity and associates his actions of justice with his special love for those who have no…
The Story Of A Dropbox That Saves Lives
A documentary about a South Korean pastor who is credited with saving countless abandoned babies who might have otherwise have died abandoned on the streets is set to open in theaters nationwide early next Spring. “The Dropbox” tells the story…
Ferguson Is About The Failure Of Fathers & Families
At the heart of the Brown case was the responsibility of parents to train their children rightly. “If the parents don’t turn back to God, love Him with all their heart, soul and might, get married, and by good example…
Skewed Views Of Physical Adoption Lead To Skewed Views Of Spiritual Adoption
When I hear that phrase “a child of your own” separating the children under my roof from the one born from my womb, and my heart saddens at the misunderstanding of this wild-love that’s been birthed within my home…
Why Women Must Keep The Standards High When Looking For A Husband
Porn is so prevalent, according to Regnerus, that if all Christian women left their boyfriends or turned down suitors based on their browser histories, marriage and the future of the church would be doomed. From his article, it’s easy for…
How Teenagers Shaped History
“Teens are just that way! It’s who they are.” Well, history is there to prove you wrong. It may be who they are, but it is NOT who they are meant to be. Teens can be the most energetic,…
Why People Who Have Kids Have More Kids
Anything of value is exhausting. Planting and keeping a garden. Business ventures. Writing and publishing a book. Raising animals. Developing strong relationships. Maintaining a healthy body. Learning a useful skill or earning a degree. And yes, having and raising…
Bring Peace To Your Home With These 12 Practices
Where I saw mess and mayhem, she saw joy and contentment. A peaceful home. Maybe there’s no easy formula, but here are 12 simple things that can help bring peace into your home: Speak kindly. It’s amazing how a little…
Why The Young And The Restless Should Get Married And Make Babies
You won’t miraculously turn into a better person because you got married and had kids, obviously. But, at their essence, families are built and held together through sacrificial love, and this is something that can — if you give…
Why Is Being Fruitful And Multiplying So Counter-Cultural?
There is a general perception that the only thing keeping every woman of childbearing age from having fourteen children, is some method of family planning. But the facts really don’t support that perception. In general, our society is worried about…
Reflections On The Youth Ministry Trap
Looking back on my many years in youth ministry, I see that I was working so hard to win the hearts of students to the youth group. I want the youth group to be the place where they found their…
Sunday Sermon: Your Family & God’s Plan, Part 2
Dr. Rob Rienow shows how the first command to humans to be fruitful and multiply is still in effect. The primary means by which this happens is through families passing on faith from generation to generation. The Great Commission…
What Happens When We Live In A Fatherless World?
Father in our world is absent, first because he is gone all day at work, out of the sight of his children, and second because society marginalizes and mocks his role in the family. Now, it’s not that we…
Understand The Difference Between Modern Family And Biblical Family
In honor of Throwback Thursday, we are remembering a video post in which Jeremy Pryor explains how the Bible’s view of family collides with modern Western views of family. The insightful comparisons and contrasts between these two models of family shed…
Sunday Sermon: Your Family & God’s Plan
Dr. Rob Rienow explains what God’s vision for family is and how your family in particular fits into that plan. Note: See this earlier post about one of Rob Rienow’s excellent books about family vision and leadership. Note 2:…
5 Things That Bring Unity To The Church
I’ve come to believe that instead of being a bunch of churches separated by music style or building, God sees one bride and one city church. In my experience, we are a divided, fighting, graceless, defensive mess. If your…
A Man’s Legacy Is Bound Up With His Son-In-Law
Every man wants to know that their life will matter. Every man wants to leave a legacy when they are gone. This is why it matters how involved you are in your kids lives and what you teach them.…
Recovering From The Loss Of A Child
A friend of mine had a stillborn daughter a few years ago. His process of recovering from that devastating ordeal was one of the most best examples I have ever seen of how a disciple of Jesus can grieve…
3 Ways Men Kill Their Marriages And What To Do About It
I’ve seen it first hand in multiple couples. Put them in a group of people and they’ll talk a good talk, but put them in a room together and the communication train de-rails almost immediately. He doesn’t want to…
How To Lead Your Children Into A Missional Mindset
Paul Tripp shares his thoughts about how parents can lead their children in a process of becoming mindful of God’s mission and purposes so that they can be aligned with that mission and purpose. In other words, this is…
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